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BIOPSY STORY

NOTE: GLEN HAS TOLD THE STORY OF HIS SURGERY, WHICH YOU CAN FIND ON THE LINK BELOW, BUT HAS INCLUDED THE TALE OF HIS BIOPSY. HIS EXPERIENCE IS PERSONAL TO HIM AND IS TOLD IN GRAPHIC DETAIL, SO IF YOU ARE OF A NERVOUS DISPOSITION, YOU MAY WANT TO GO BACK NOW - RETURN TO GLEN'S STORY. YOU ALSO NEED TO KNOW THAT NOT EVERYONE HAS AN EXPERIENCE AS DRAMATIC AS GLEN'S .

Here is the story of Glen's biopsy and the side effects as he tells it:

For those of you that just had a blood test and haven't had the biopsy, well they shove a camera up your ass, then they stab you with an ice pick twelve times and take out little pieces from all over the gland and feed you the line of bullshit that you're such a good patient.

The first couple hurt, they move to the top and it really hurts, they work their way down the other side and you start to get bitchy by about the ninth sample. The last two samples really hurt. Once it's done, you sit around for a half hour and feel like you ate lots of hot peppers at a meal last night, and had the razor blades come out all morning this morning. You know how you feel once that diarrohea is gone and you're just tired and sore? That would be my description of how you feel.

They mention that it's OK to have sex and really get chickenshit telling you everything that you really want to know afterward. For example; is it normal for blood to flow out? Yes, you may notice a discoloration for a week or so. That's true!

What they don't tell you is that sometimes the blood clots and comes out in a streamy blob that you feel all the way through from bladder till it hits the toilet. You'll see it, and it feels weird and looks gross. I wouldn't say that it hurts. So that's what happens after the biopsy........but did you get info about what happens when you have sex after the biopsy? This is where they really get chickenshit and don't tell you everything else until it actually happens and then you call them up to talk [them being the urologist]

Right after you come, you get super sensitive as usual and touching it anymore is unnecessary. So if you lie there and relax, you'll then finally [in a minute or two] get a wave that rushes through you up into your ass and feels like someone has just boned you with a two by four. It throbs for about 10 seconds, and you say, "wow" to yourself, and wonder if you're OK. When you pull out, you'll see serious amounts of blood.

For those of you that don't have issues about having sex with your wife when she is having her period and have done so, you know exactly what this looks like, except it's all blood from you. This will make you get somewhat upset and another call to the urologist will confirm that this is normal and that you should masturbate, because you have to clean all the blood out of the prostate anyhow, and that it all doesn't come out from peeing, but also from sex.

Note: some guys are squeamish about the word masturbate and wouldn't do it if they had a gun held to their head. Grow up! Masturbating feels good and relieves tension and I hope to be able to do it again soon.

Another note: your prostate is beginning to fail if you have cancer. How can you be sure of what is going on with your body? If you masturbate, you know how much come is normal for you. If you have an orgasm and the come is less and less........well don't you think that's because your prostate isn't functioning like it should? This is important information for your doctor and you should talk to him about it. You're not gay if you talk about this with your doctor and neither is he. This is a medical condition and you need to be honest about it.

And now for the gay guys that think that I just bashed them. I didn't. You must realize from my very frank and open accounts that there are some guys that are heterosexual that are too uptight and need to be told what I just wrote.

And for the gay guys: you know the "tie a knot in it" line? Well I can tell you that as the prostate begins to fail [because even when you have anal stimulation and have your orgasm] if the prostate is failing, then less jizz comes out. My wife verified this with her finger inside me rubbing the prostate when I came she knew that I wasn't the same anymore. Even with that for stimulation, less than a teaspoonful comes out. Watch some porno and wait for the cumshot scene, do you shoot like that anymore?

By the way, the throbbing in your ass decreases and hurts a lot less as time goes on after the biopsy, but even after 6 months had passed, I still had that happen, though not as intense. You need to lie still and relax and it will happen but it won't take your breath away.

So now that everyone is amused and shocked I'll keep on....

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